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A good place to start is to look at Review Sites like The Erotic Review, Big Doggie, and the new TnA Review which allows girls to respond back regarding negative reviews. I particularly like The TnA Review because now we can hear the gal’s side of the story. On these review sites you can read feedback posted by other customers about a provider. Information about looks, appearance, timeliness, professionalism, attitude, and the types of services the gal provided, even her rates regarding such. And lastly the overall summation of the provider as is crucial to assessing the entire experience. Lots of ladies have website banner ads on the review boards and internet directories. Get started by clicking on these ads and looking at their websites. You can learn a great deal of information here as their personal sites contain lots of information and or requirements. Some of the savvier providers have suggestions to etiquette, and please take this information seriously as this is their way of advertising their preferred way of doing business. Take the time to read through their entire site not just look at her photos and rates.
Next, return to the boards and do a name search on the lady for the last six months. Read her posts and you should be able to get a read on her personality and quality of service. At this point you may have a list of a few providers that appeal to you. Take this list and go to any of the following review sites to see if any feedback has been posted about your list of favorite providers.
Initial Contact
If her form has a comment section, whatever you say do not make any rude or sexually suggestive comments. To do so will insure you never here from the lady at all if she is a professional. If she doesn't have a request form and only has an email or phone number then use this to initiate contact. For a first email keep it simple. In the Subject Line, use something like: "Hi from Robert" or “Appointment Request from Robert” This will get your email read. Do NOT write, "I need it bad","or “Please Do me !" You never get your email read and will automatically end up being deleted. Keep your email simple and respectful.
Hello:
Include your contact phone # and best time to call. Most escorts are very good about returning respectful emails. You should generally get a response in 48 hours or less. Some have auto-response systems set up and the first email back may be that. Some of these ladies are very busy. Another delay in a reply maybe the lady is traveling, on vacation or on an extended appointment. Just because she doesn't reply right away, doesn't mean bad news. If you have no response after 3 days, you may try once more as sometimes emails do get deleted by mistake.
Verification
Therefore the Companion is going to ask for what seems like personal information, work phone, company name, possibly who have you seen or who you know. Don't fight it. She's merely trying to protect herself and her clients (perhaps soon to be you) from potential problems. Keep in mind she wants to make the appointment too and has a vested interest in "discretion". Some providers ask for little information, some ask for more. If you refuse to provide her with the information you can forget about an appointment with the lady. The Verification is a safety process you normally can't negotiate. Either you meet her terms and respect her wishes or she doesn’t see you. There are Companions who will prefer to call on the phone rather than answer your email if you left a contact number and a ‘safe' time to call. Once this dialogue has been opened now is the time to find out more information about the lady. Does she have a favorite meal, favorite flower or favorite wine? What kind of music does she like? What is her favorite thing to do? What does she dislike? Now this is assuming, this information is NOT on her web site. There is no greater way to look more foolish than by asking questions she has painstakingly posted on her website. If this is your first time tell her. She’ll appreciate your candor. Share with her your favorites, likes and dislikes. If you are bit nervous that is understandable, but be a MAN and tell her. Most ladies are fantastic and willing to put you at ease. This is not the time to be shy, bluff your way through, or tough it out!! Finalize the date, time, place and length of your meeting.
Meetings
If her site doesn't cover it, politely ask "What are your first meeting policies". This information is what you need to learn, during your communications leading up to your meeting. An important warning here is the lady may have given you her cellular or other contact number. Now is NOT the time to become NEEDY or a phone stalker. Some ladies are very talkative and will call you more than a few times. Others may only call once or twice. Follow her lead and respect her wishes. What if a man answers? There will be cases where you call (Make sure your phone# is NOT blocked) the number on the web site an a man answers. Don't Panic! Calmly and politely say a greeting "hello", "good afternoon" followed by, did I dial 555-1212 or whatever the published number is on the web site. Often you HAVE dialed the right number and yes her bookings are done by a man. No problem! Conduct yourself like you would in any other professional situation. They have a service you want and you are calling to contract those services. Just remember the same discretion rules of what you can and can not say STILL apply. Asking "so buddy, how much for a BJ" or "have you dated her yourself" is a guaranteed hang up. It also screams "Hi I'm a dumb ass with no class."
The Big Day
Answering the door in your white boxers works fine for scaring away Jehovah Witnesses but it is bad for a first meeting with an escort. The only pleasure you will have is the probability of watching her walk away. Be level headed, alcohol and drug free and have no drugs in the room if you partake in that sort of thing. After an escort gets to know you and feels comfortable with you she may enjoy a glass of wine with you but at first she’ll want to keep her wits about her. Falling down drunk or drugged out is also a bad idea. Companions of a certain caliber will leave immediately if you fall into either two of these categories. So, there she is, standing in the doorway, offer her your hand invite her in and offer her a seat. Ask if she wants something to drink. If you are really savvy, a fresh vase of her favorite flowers is a great touch and invite her to take them when she leaves. Expect to sit and chat for a little bit to break the ice. Have a glass of, juice, soda or wine. However, don't be put off is she refuses alcoholic beverages nor push the issue. Smile, respect it and have something else to offer just in case. Depending on the area of the country you are in you may be asked to show her your driver's license. Have it readily available along with her fee in clear view on the coffee table or stand. Whatever you do, don't ask so what am I getting for this? She’ll think you’re a cop and are wired to record her responses. That's what your research was for and any smart Companion will turn around and walk. Be a considerate client by having the fee in a white envelope in plain sight is best. Some will excuse themselves and go to the bathroom to check all is in order. There are some places the Companion will see the envelope but say nothing or even touch it till the end of the meeting. After the small chit chat, the Companion may or may not excuse her self to the bathroom while telling you to "get comfortable". This is your sign to "get undressed". Remember her boundaries and that No means No! If you're a bit nervous most ladies will sense this and lead you through the meeting. Remember attitude is key. If you are polite, act like a gentleman and treat the lady with respect and dignity, you are pretty much going to have a good time. If the Lady performs a GFE (Girl Friend Experience) Expect Condoms to be used. DON’T EVEN ASK NOT TO! If the lady offers a BBBJ (Oral Sex Without Condom), only you can decide if you can accept the risk. Some ladies will, some ladies won't. If you can't accept the risk, ask her to use a condom. Some ladies will kiss, some won't. All of these things should be no surprise to you if you have done your homework. Then expect some more small talk at the end.
REVIEWS
TIPPING
FOLLOW UP The follow up doesn't mean send an email everyday or a phone call either. Just a short Thank you till the next time will do. The Bottom line is to treat the Companion like a lady, with dignity and the way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the time to research and find a Companion who fits your needs, there is no reason you should not have an enjoyable experience. These are the ground rules. Follow them and I assure you a better time with your prospective companions.
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